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me and my girlfriend are looking into domestic discipline and we are bothnot sure where to start, there is really noway we could goto meetings due to various work and college commitments, and would love some advice as well as a few personal definations of what Domestic discipline means to you. Sorry if i'm going about this the wrong way, but ive alwasy though, it would be better to get advice than to dive in at the deep end, and find yourself basically out of your depths. xxx
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Re: Advice... please
Sun, July 8, 2007 - 3:03 PMWow, where to start?
For me, the major part of my service is the little things. I tie her shoes, help her dress, wash her in the shower, kneel down as she washes my hair when she wants to (she loves doing it), get her water or anything she mentions, etc, etc.
For me it's doing the things she needs or wants done to simply make her day better. When I'm at my best, she doesn't need to say a word.
Dig around in this tribe's history and see what you can find.
I'm sure there are others here who can ask better questions to to determine what you are looking for exactly. -
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Re: Advice... please
Fri, July 20, 2007 - 11:51 AMthank you for your post, i will have to sit and discuss it with her thank you again
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Re: Advice... please
Sun, September 30, 2007 - 9:43 AMIt's not the wrong way to go about it, it's the perfect way to go about it.
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Re: Advice... please
Mon, October 8, 2007 - 5:51 PMCheck out the tribe of Master Latexher - The FunGeon. This Dom is a friend of ours whom we have played with on occasion. He understanding and about as real as a person can be. Babs -
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Re: Advice... please
Wed, October 31, 2007 - 6:09 AMthank you all i shall try to check out the above mentioned tribe, but sadly im going to be late for class xxx
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Re: Advice... please - Domestic Discipline!
Wed, October 31, 2007 - 8:37 AMFirst of all one has to determine which partner will become the DOM or Domme. Domestic discipline is not just associated with submissive males, although in this country their seems to be an abundance of them. Furthermore, once it is established who will dom - than you may further establish the duties and punishments involved for infractions of the rules.
We have been lucky to have had females in the past whom we have trained as maids . Domestic discipline certainly was strictly enforced. Personally I gain pleasure by caning unruly women as they submit to the rod! ENJOY
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Re: Advice... please - Domestic Discipline!
Wed, October 31, 2007 - 9:59 AMthank you, we've decided for her to be the domme, and me the sub, but as we're a gay couple, its quite hard to find accounts on this side of the spectrum -
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Re: Advice... please - Domestic Discipline!
Wed, October 31, 2007 - 11:35 PMgender has nothing to do with dominating/submissive roles or personalities. a person's gender may be used as a tool for dominating another person, but it doesn't determine roles. for gay couples it's the same as with us breeders... the two of you determine who's to be on top, who's to be on bottom. the person on top sets standards and tasks, and expects the person on the bottom to follow through with them. hopefully, the person on top has been clear enough with the person on the bottom that, there's no mistaking what the person on top wants. in addition to having clearly defined roles, there should also be clearly defined responsibilities, and clearly defined punishments.j
best of luck to you and your partner!
Etaim
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Re: Advice... please - Domestic Discipline!
Wed, October 31, 2007 - 11:03 AMyup... canes are an efficient tool *shivers* -
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Re: Advice... please - Domestic Discipline!
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 2:57 PMDon't overlook the rattan carpet beater.
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