What's your number one kink?

topic posted Sat, October 21, 2006 - 3:00 PM by  Unsubscribed
Mine's Daddy/little girl. It fits me. What of you?

Don't list more than one! That's my only rule (but then again, I'm not a rule setting type heehee).
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  • Unsu...
     
    I love boot worship and associated play (licking, kising, cock and ball stomping, etc.) when a beautiful woman is wearing an elegantly sexy pair of high heeled boots.
    • Unsu...
       
      Thank you for sharing! What do you think draws you to that? Do you have any memories associated with this from when you were younger? If I'm being nosey, don't mind me; that's one of my little girl traits :-D.
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        I do remember always liking women that wore high heeled boots, even back to being quite young.

        If you were thinking about having some kind of classical conditioning associated with boots, then no. I have head of people that think you have an early pleasurable experience associated with some thing and this leads you to fetishize it later. I think some things are just inherently attractive, like beautiful women wearing high heels.
        • Unsu...
           
          Perhaps you were just aware of your sexual self earlier than most and, being at a tad shorter than most sexually aware people, fixated on the very accessible and admitedly sexy shoe. Or is it the power that boots imply that attracts you to them?

          Sorry, I'm in a writing mode at the moment and probably being fairly obnoxious.

          :-D
          • Unsu...
             
            Autumn,

            I have heard (and I tend to believe) that the pineal gland goes active in most people around the age of 5 for about a year. Then it goes dormant again until adolescence. For some reason this is often associated with sexual attraction memories around the age of 5, followed by complete lack of interest in sex, and then a renewed interest at puberty. The intricacies of brain chemistry and the pineal gland are beyond me to explain (and there is not enough space here anyhow).

            However, your notion of what was available would still not answer the chicken and egg question of if women started wearing high heels first or if men were attracted to them first (assuming that there was some notion of sexual imprinting at a young age).

            I was not the clingy type (more of the run away and try to catch me type), so I tend more towards the notion that high heels are inherently attractive.

            I am done now.
  • Going out for a meal with my beautiful partner and knowing that under my suit I am wearing stockings and suspenders and a chastity device and knowing that if I want to get that device off.....I will have to be really really good.....( She once put a remote butt plug in me as well)
    • Unsu...
       
      I know about having to be really good to get stuff. I don't know a whole lot about chastity belts, tho...

      Now I am curious.
      • Chastity really works for me...in that I don't want it. It therefore acts as a tremendous control. I am seldom allowed to masterbate as if I get release I am 'satisfied' and therefore less likely to be attentive to my partner. Orgasm denial is an awful punishment and the Chastity device prevents me even touching myself for pleasure and so my thoughts are always how to please my partner and get Her in the mood.....which is great for both of us.
  • I'm no longer sure what I consider kinky and what I consider just fun, but if I can remember what things look like from a vanilla perspective my favorite activity that is perceived as kinky is facesitting/queening.
    • Unsu...
       
      ...what is that? I haven't heard of this one!
      • Wow, it's amazing stuff. Seriously amazing.

        I'll see if i can find a link to a pic that is so awesome.

        The long and short of it, from a subs perspective, is laying there with your Master's vagina lowered over your face and that awesome, perfect, delicious smell and taste becoming the center of your world at her discretion.

        Sight and sound are obliterated and all that's left is warmth and moisture and the most succulent assault your mouth and nose have ever received.

        It's also an effective way to perform breath control/denial if that's your deal. It's an exceptionally powerful position and, if you're like me, a joy to receive.
  • Alien Master

    06/06
    Alien captive (like a 24/7 M/s but I like electrical tape and electro torture basically no "ropy looking rope" or mettal unless it is black and smooth loocking)
  • Old thread.. still answerable!

    Hmm.. I like fear. I love being helpless and held down by either hands or rope, and threatened in various ways. I love not knowing what He's going to next or when it's going to end. I Love fear.
  • That's a tough one. I feel all my kinks are equal, but if I have to pick just one I will say I'm a pain slut. I really not only enjoy a good flogging and various other devices upon my back, but I also enjoy not letting you see my pain. My meaning is if you tell me I'm going to move, I'm not. Even if you draw blood. If I start to cry I will do it so you can't hear me. I love to challenge myself to that next level for one and there is a really small and very bad part of me that feels I should be punished. You would think that I could take it just as well on my bottom, but not yet. Perhaps with a lot more practise! ; P ; > I know that my need for punishment is one of the reasons I'm drawn to this tribe. I have a real need to be disciplined and helped with my very bad habits.
    But I have soooo many more kinks that make me up.
    You really were in a writing mode weren't you. ; >
  • DJ
    DJ
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    CBT is my number one Kink. Nothing beats being restrained and having the clips put on one at a time. Stretch, squeeze hummmmmmmm.
    Throw in a webcam and have a whole group of people watch while the session is going on just puts me into subspace that much faster.

    Very Respectfully
    dj
  • Simply to be all tied up, at Her mercy !
    • I would've said tied, but then I think as long as the person has a strong enough aura and is able to make me feel helpless even without being physically bound, then it's all good :)
      • Mm, Yes. Sometimes when master is simply standing over me I feel locked in place, completely immobilized. It's a wonderful feeling when just his presence sparks my obedience, it's then I feel how much I was meant to be a Slave and more specifically, His Slave. :)
      • Well, you are right, of course. If she says: "don't move !" or "sht up !" I'll obey without restriction. But being tied up is just one variation among many.. and then you feel like being a toy at her disposal, not knowing what is going on in her mind. Basically it boils down to feeling her power and being helpless, while she knows what's good for you and most importantly, for her.
  • Unsu...
     
    Punching actually. I know it freaks people out, but I've got a lot of muscle and Madame knows where to punch. I even got her some lead powder gloves to use. When she punches on me I just laugh and laugh. She uses it as a reward after doing the more painful things to me that she likes.
  • I really have a problem with people who have the gall to bring up a controversial topic and then unsiscribe their profile so no one knows who they are. It makes me wonder if it is law enforcement fishing for someone to say something stupid. If you are going to bring up a controversial topic have the courage to let people know who you are including a photo.
  • Diapers. There is something about the bulkiness and softness. And an appreciation of not having to get up to use the bathroom. And a part of me likes the humiliation when someone changes me, especially if they take their time while lecturing me or fussing over me like a little kid or baby.
  • RT
    RT
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    its not really a kink, more of a fetish going back many many years i love to see a wedding ring being worn and enjoy the feel of it, to me the wedding ring is the symbol of the one who control the home and hat goes on inside it.

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