Orgasm denial

topic posted Sun, January 29, 2006 - 8:54 PM by  norman
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HI I am new to tribe
Happily married in relationship where I control the sex (voluntarilty)
System at moment is to wait as long as possible and then make the coupling uncomfortable for my wife (once again both parties agree)
The best she has done is 5 weeks with no orgasm but we are getting better.
Best method seems to be sexual punishment for orgasm
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norman
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    Re: Orgasm denial

    Sun, January 29, 2006 - 8:58 PM
    Both parties agree? What is that all about?

    Have you thought about rewards for good performance?
    • Re: Orgasm denial

      Tue, January 31, 2006 - 7:12 PM
      she agrees that in order to become a better wife she should withhold her sexual pleasure (ie to become more "proper")
      we both agree that it is my job to help her become a better wife.
      punishment is set in concrete, ie even if neither of us want to carry out the punishment it is in the rules and the rules must be obeyed as the rules are important.

      Yes i agree that rewards are important, the reward for no orgasm is no punishment, this makes us both feel good and as time goes by we are feeling better all the time
  • Re: Orgasm denial

    Sat, April 8, 2006 - 12:08 PM
    I would like to believe that sex can't be used as punishment.
    In my opinion, when sex is used in such a way, means that the couple needs serious advice.
    Orgasm, or sex denial means that nothing is flowing between the couple. This is my point.
    Thanks,
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    Re: Orgasm denial

    Wed, April 12, 2006 - 10:16 PM
    What is it you mean by "wait as long as possible"? Do you mean, just waiting with no sensual interludes? - or wait with teasing and denail session included?

    Orgasm denial it would seem, would be best if there was the building of need over long periods of time, and the control of when that need was satisfied.

    I have long had an interest in orgasm denail and have practiced it for many years with a submissive wife.
    • Re: Orgasm denial

      Wed, April 12, 2006 - 10:59 PM
      my experience with chastity is that it works best with a lot of interaction and stimulus. under those circumstances, it is erotic power exchange.
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        Re: Orgasm denial

        Thu, April 13, 2006 - 5:41 AM
        Definitely so and LOTS of it. Hours spent taking the denied partner to the brink and keeping them near it. Watching them squirm and hearing the pleas as you continue the denial is a very erotic powerplay.
        • Re: Orgasm denial

          Thu, April 13, 2006 - 7:03 PM
          True, or cut a male off and tease him for 10-14 days. Then give him a chance to earn release. He can earn it by staying naked and always being erect when you look at him. If at any time, he is not erect, then he can go another week. The cool part is that he does the work for hours. Also, he can go seven or eight hours of stimulating himself, only to fail, if he relaxes. It's nice if friends drop by, and he has to explain his situation to them, all the while keeping himself hard.

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