I think a woman should run this forum.

I believe that you SHOULD be the one in control. So keep it up.

As a 6'2" semi-muscular build male with an aggressive personality and a reasonable proficience in weapons and, not to mention, being a snappy dresser, I have to say, yes, women *should* be in control.

My Master is practically my reason for living and we don't even have a 24-7 relationship.

well, power and control in a relationship are tricky and interesting things of you think about them a bit -

Here is an example to consider - two women (just to take gender roles out of it) walk into a nice place for dinner. One tells the waiter that only one menu will be necessary. This one describes dishes to the other who comments saying that this sounds good, but no, that one does not sound quite so good, etc, but she does not indicate a clear specific preference leaving the choice to the other. The one holding the menu then makes a bit of a show of ordering for both. What happened here? did a dominant order for her submissive (control)? or did a submissive order for her dominant (service)? No way to know - the meaning is entirely between the actors and in the context of there relationship.

Or consider this - who rally has the power, the person who commands the service of another or the one who provides service to one dependent on that service. These issues are not as clear cut as you might think on the surface - that's a bigpart of the fun!

John

P.S. Disco - Welcome!

nice to meet you....