Advertisement WARNING!

topic posted Mon, February 11, 2008 - 9:53 AM by  LatexHer

WARNING! ------------------------------ this site is full of fakes, liars and picture collectors! Not for real time players!
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  • Unsu...

    Re: WARNING!

    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 2:52 PM
    I have met several real people on collarme .

    Yes there are fakes on the site but they are on every site.

    Sorry to hear about the fakes
    Very Respectfully
  • Re: WARNING!

    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 8:30 PM
    have to agree with DJ on this one - all sites have fakes, liars and picture collectors. many of them also have genuine people looking to find friends or possibly more and it's up to each of us to weed out the ones that don't suit our needs. besides even if someone is 'real' it doesn't necessarily mean they are the one for me.

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    Mon, February 11, 2008 - 9:51 PM
    i agree with both of you. I find its hard to burst through the bubble of the community here. i still feel like im and outsider but i havent really made myself available. anyway thank god for my mentor. Its funny feeling like your the only kinky one at a party of kinksters. lol. plus im african american but maby thats me being to sensitive . wtf . however ive been on for years and have only met one good friend.

  • Unsu...

    Re: WARNING!

    Thu, February 14, 2008 - 7:05 AM
    ummm the internet is full of fakes and liars.

    Singles bars are full of fakes and liars.

    Offices are full of fakes and liars.

    McDonalds are full of fakes and liars.

    I think the Ahmish should create a dating site for kinky Ahmish folk. Then we might find a good, forthright, honest place to look for partners.

    You wanna date on the internet, be prepared to wade through a lot of chaff to find that sexy grain of wheat.
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      Thu, October 22, 2009 - 7:03 PM
      To meet non fakes you got to watch what type of place you eat at... it is obvious that you need to choose wisely....Domino's and subway are obviously bdsm food eateries. They should be built side by side, with the subway wearing a thick collar....

      Of interest is that all human lie to themselves due to false persona developed in peer group situations, Watch how much a "Biker" changes when his mother comes in the room. We believe we know ourselves, yet we often do not. It was believed in the recent past that one could do work on one's self to become more whole as a human. I believe we are in fact part alien in origin and seek to find the alien within. We are capable of more depth in being than we are pressured to do by the culture. To be Dominant is one level of energy and to live it is another. One needs to do the latter with purpose more than playing the role of some game. I have been on CM for some time. There is always a level of fake among the submissive's intentions. -MoM
  • Re: WARNING!

    Tue, February 19, 2008 - 9:21 AM
    I'm not sure that we all don't already know that.

    Collarme has put me in touch with some really wonderful people, you just have to sort through the idiots first.
    • K45
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      Sat, February 23, 2008 - 8:32 AM
      <<you just have to sort through the idiots first.>>

      The TRUTH of the whole Internet! :)

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        Sat, February 23, 2008 - 9:22 AM
        true dat! =]
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          Sat, February 23, 2008 - 12:37 PM
          That's why I prefer Burger King to McDonalds...the king would never lie and he has a crown... besides, I'm "askeered" of clowns.
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            Sat, February 23, 2008 - 1:29 PM
            i think the King is a closet Dom =]
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              Sun, February 24, 2008 - 1:17 PM
              <Grin>...hmmm...yes...the King should just collar the clown and get it all over with. Think of the possibilities...could make for some interesting Happy Meal toys.
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                Mon, February 25, 2008 - 8:29 PM
                Very funny! thanks for making me smile ;)
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                  Mon, April 14, 2008 - 11:05 AM
                  Another brilliant collection of people who have nothing better to accomplish in their miserable lives than to express themselves in an adolescent way. Perhaps all of you sexually depraved misfits should go back to smelling your own rears to assess if you have any brains left. You know who you are!

                  Get a life! You are the problem - not the solution!
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                    Re: WARNING!

                    Tue, September 30, 2008 - 7:15 AM
                    Thanks for the compliment... I can assure you that we are truly trying as hard as we can to make you life miserable.
                    • Unsu...

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                      Tue, September 30, 2008 - 9:32 AM
                      Don't pay attention to what he says. He's full of it himself. He just hasn't quite *expressed* it yet in this tribe.

                      Adolescent humor is a fantastic way to lighten up a subject that might get weird when it comes to newbies vs. old school players. There are different levels of people out there who like different things. The true sign of a fake is one who feels the need to point out those who are "FAKES". It's an adolescent move in itself-one which lacks maturity. It is essentially the equivalent of the whole obsessed with "posers" and "wannabes" when you're in middle school. Instills a false sense of confidence in the name caller, as it were.

                      Also, heads up, any subs considering this man, steer clear. He's had a habit of suggesting things that could permanently damage and cause severe health problems in subs.

                      • Unsu...

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                        Wed, October 22, 2008 - 7:04 PM
                        I dont think i been trying as hard as I can. Maybe someone should spank me for not giving it my all.
                        For the Love of all things holy, lighten up and enjoy life. So sorry you didnt get your pee-pee sucked. Move on
                        Have more sex and smile. Geez and you have to admitt, the happy meal comment was funny. I dont care who you are that SH*T was funny.
                        You guys rock and keep up the banter. Its been a while since a thread made me smile.

                        On a different topic, I believe if the King tried to top Ronny the clown, something tells me the Hambergular would get pissed off and break out his cuffs and restrain the king. Never trust a guy who wears a mask and horizontal stripes.
                        • Unsu...

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                          Wed, October 22, 2008 - 8:37 PM
                          he would TOTALLY do that. He's like a crazy mental patient that broke free and has to cause a ruckus everywhere he goes. I know those are supposed to be prison stripes, but that guy is insane!!! The king is all slow, so hamburgler would just zoom around and KAZAAAM! the king would be all cuffed and gagged. Looney laughter would ensue.
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                    Re: WARNING!

                    Sun, April 4, 2010 - 4:50 PM

                    Cute animated GIF - take that, you stuffy old antiporn creeps
                    sorry Late, it's a penis in a raincoat!!! see if you can figure out the rest!!!
  • Unsu...

    Re: WARNING!

    Tue, January 6, 2009 - 2:32 AM, umm yea.

    "Mod11" has about 135 profiles. Its done to try to keep discussion going. For the most part, any dissent with "her" ( as in she was a he, but may still be a he pretending to be a she, or a he) will get you banned. This same person will send endless private messages to people "informing" newbies about "her" opinion of other members, slighting people she has never even met. In addtion, when you notice that someone has many thousands of posts, some with tens of thousands of posts, those people work for Collar and are paid to try to keep the whole affair going. Why? Ever notice all those affililate links and paid ads on the side bars? Thats why. Money.
    • Re: WARNING!

      Sun, January 10, 2010 - 2:40 PM
      It seems I am not the only one who has had issues with moderator 11 who is a bully and a tyrant and will express that you should turn the other cheek, take it up the A3#, or whatever else they want to do to you in the Discussions. You aren't allowed to dissent or complain if someone dumps on you because Mod 11 will eventually get you banned for not being nice. Nevermind that everyone else is ripping you a new one, mod 11 has issues and she will use whoever is handy to toss her weight around but yeah I think its a "he" not a she.
    • Unsu...
      You noticed this ass left his crap and left? No way to be asked about all the crap he posted right here - he has to stop typing with one hand!

      Nothing to back up his running off at the mouth about NOTHING!

      Complaining about side ads that help pay their bills is just whining about empty crap!

      THOUSANDS or posts, REALLY - 135 profiles? Sounds like envy to me, the site runs just fine with the REAL people that interact there pretty well!
  • Jon
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    Re: WARNING!

    Sun, February 8, 2009 - 2:34 AM
    I'd agree with you there mate! I've been delving into CM for several years now and the only realtime meeting I ever had was with a drunken nutter!
    I formed the opinion a long time ago that CM hires poverty-stricken students to write up shit to encourage us genuine mugs to communicate.
    I've approached more than 200 women over several years, and at best I get a nasty response, and very few of them even. Most don't even respond.
    My profile and pics aren't objectionable, if you care to look. I get my share of funsters elsewhere so I can't look too bad.
    Just another scam for most of us I reckon.
  • Re: WARNING!

    Tue, February 10, 2009 - 8:07 AM
    I have been on collarme for more than a year now.. i met fakes and real ones but the majority was real...
    • Re: WARNING!

      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 8:09 AM
      Some of you were luckier I do suppose. We only met two real women on CollarMe in the last three years worth our time. Barb Y. Is a genuine woman who has served us until last year. She has gone on to more severe training beyond our scope. We retain our original view of CollarMe - be CAUTIOUS!
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        Sun, March 22, 2009 - 9:17 AM
        >We retain our original view of CollarMe

        None of us really care what you think.
        • Unsu...

          Re: WARNING!

          Sun, March 22, 2009 - 4:13 PM
          I reject your reality and submitt my own.

          Truth be told I have met some great people off of Collarme. I met some fakes, some people who lied about their lifestyle role and some who lied about their gender.

          But overall I met some great people and will continue to use this site.

          Very Respectfully
          • Re: WARNING!

            Wed, March 25, 2009 - 8:23 AM
            i had a wee look round collarme too after i had heard bout it on another site....and i totally agree with some of the comments here...u need to be cautious and willing to sift through the eejits who like to email u saying that ur nothing more "f*** meat" and such beautiful colourful language as that in order to actually find people who are real and worth getting to know...but to be fair i have met someone on there and we happen to get along very well...and are hoping to meet r't....
  • Re: WARNING!

    Sun, January 10, 2010 - 2:35 PM
    I have to say that I have been on collarme twice and both times proved a disaster.

    Three days ago my photos (2 of them, one of my face and one just my body...clothed but kinky) were "misappropriated" from my profile there. I thought it would be easy enough to fix, dumb idea. I followed Collarme's directions as to how to report the theft and the only thing that happened for a while was that they yanked MY REPLACEMENT PICTURES within 60 seconds of posting them, for some reason they were on top of me right away. They also deleted my journal notes about what was happening so people would know what was going on. Nothing happened to the photos that were stolen from me, not only that but the jerk who stole them was making rude comments about me and all sorts of allegations about my sexual identity. When i complained Collarme told me to shut up or else I would be banned due to breaking the TOS. Not one word about how the thief stole, lied and was dishonest. They finally took the face picture down but ignored a note the thief left on their profile ridiculing me and promising to start a new profile soon with the exact same pictures.

    Collar me didnt ban them they just threatened to ban me. If this sounds unreal is feels unreal too. But I can tell you Collarme has no interest in its patrons or protecting us so use extreme caution. WATERMARK your photos and don't expect any help from Collarme coz you won't get it I guarantee you.
  • Re: WARNING!

    Sun, January 31, 2010 - 1:00 PM
    I disagree. I am on and I play. But have been brutalized enough by so called "Doms" to know that you have to draw folks out and vet them carefully. I am also active in the community and if I want to make our first play at a public dungeon and get B.S. about it I go elsewhere.

    If you want to know a phoney site it is I know a gal (my rommie's GF) that is actually paid by to put up multiple profiles and engage the fellows. Of course she seldom meets any of them.

    Any website is going to attract the merely curious. Many wish to engage only in chat and fantasy. If you want to meet real-time players, go to the local dungeon.
  • Re: WARNING!

    Thu, February 11, 2010 - 5:31 PM
    There are fakes on every networking site. Putting in place methods to scope them out and ignore them is the solution, not dismissing the whole site.
    • Re: WARNING!

      Mon, February 15, 2010 - 6:46 PM
      I joined it, met a few really cool women, then bailed on it in favor of Fetlife, which was introduced to me by one of my CM friends. On CM, it's too difficult to separate the real from the not-so-real...
      • Re: WARNING!

        Thu, February 18, 2010 - 6:09 PM
        I'm on collarme, my man is on collarme, several friends are on collarme, and we've met people for play via collarme. I've met people on collarme and driven long distances to meet them at events of similar interest that were not kink related.
        There are fakes on every web group anywhere. There are fakes here and in real life. It's not the site's fault.

        OP, it sounds like you just need to not go there anymore. Try munches - local, live.
        • Re: WARNING!

          Tue, May 4, 2010 - 10:47 AM
          I met a Dominant Female in real time on Collar Me. She contacted me first which is the best way, I think. I was required to dress her and give her foot and leg massages and they ended up almost being 4-hour long full body massages. I had to do this all in front of her boyfriend while he took pictures.

          It really was a fantastic, real experience. Due to other circumstances I no longer see her though.

          - Jim
  • j
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    Re: WARNING!

    Wed, June 2, 2010 - 8:33 AM
    as everyone has said the obvious(all sites/internet is full of fakes,liars,etc and you have to weed thru them) i just wanted to say i met my husband on collarme and we not only are the perfect match and are expecting our first child, we also have found lifestyle friends who who meet up with so hope anyone serious isn't mislead by a blanket statement by someone jaded.....good luck to all with finding their happiness :)
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      Wed, June 16, 2010 - 1:19 PM
      we have to disagree. we live in hollywood florida and i have met so many nice dominant men who have escorted me to the local swinger resort in hollywood florida. they did their job!!!! fucked the shit out of me and then my sweet husband cleaned up the mess. so as far as our experiences go. is for real. and the site for the resort we go to is....
  • Re: WARNING!

    Thu, July 15, 2010 - 6:27 PM
    Fakes are everywhere on the net but Id recomend a new site that started this year called unlike collarme it verifies all its members before they join so it totally cuts out all the stress of wondering if who your talking to is who is in the photo!!! hope this helps you people out there I know it helped me!!!

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